1/21/2009

Compliments Doms Give to Subs

I was so touched by this online discussion of wonderful compliments some Doms, Masters, Trainers, and Daddies have said to their beloeved subs, slaves, puppies, ponies, and little girls that I've decided to share it.



Many people wonder what BDSM really is. They think sexual kink must mean the people are perverted or abused in their past, rather than just creativity. They think about BDSM and figure it must be a bunch of abused women letting nasty, misogynistic men control our lives.



Of course, I hope from this blog you've realized that isn't true. My Dom and I are true equals in real life--we both have areas of strength the other does not have--and we only play at BDSM because we both like it. I get to be turned on the way I want and he gets the same. Everyone leaves happier and closer.



It is a definite misconception that the women (and men) subs in BDSM relationships are not loved and cared for. That they are simply used and taken for granted. Some of these online compliments shared by wonderful women subs made my heart happy. Some of the compliments I've shared are my own, from my Dom. If you are a dom, consider saying these. If you are a sub, read these and feel beautiful. If you are vanilla, I hope this makes you understand why some women choose to find love in BDSM.




  1. "Only you could be double fisted, fucked in both your arse and cunt at the same time and then buggered so thoroughly, and then politely point out that you haven't been whipped!"

  2. Good girl. I'm proud of you.

  3. I'm in love with you and want to spend the rest of my life with you.

  4. I will never be someone you used to love.

  5. You will never be alone in the dark again.

  6. You've done well and pleased me.

  7. You are a true treasure.

  8. You are my everything. There is nothing and no one more important to me than you.

  9. You are an amazing woman.

  10. You have done something I myself could never do. I am impressed.

  11. I do.

  12. You will never be replaced.

  13. Your maturity and honesty are your greatest gifts. Virtue is not lost on me.

  14. Will you cuddle with me, kitten?

  15. I can't wait to spend forever with you.

  16. I'm proud of you, and don't know many people who could have done what you did and survived, and I love you for it.

  17. You are stronger than you think, and you amaze me.

  18. Will you marry me?

  19. You really are a depraved, deliciously dirty little whore!

  20. Daddy is proud of the way you took that.

  21. Whatever I did or said to make you feel this way I offer my apologies to you for you are the greatest thing in my life ...I just want you to know, no matter what you or I say or do, I will always love you without hesitation. Maybe i am not right in my ways, maybe you aren't either, but I do know that after all these years, I know in my heart, I made the right choice marrying you, and never thought otherwise. Yes, we don't see eye to eye, we never will, but my heart sees your heart.

  22. You're mine!

  23. You are part of me, but without you I am nothing.

  24. You belong to me and will never have to make another major decision again.

  25. You love me the way I need to be loved---better than anyone.

  26. There is no part of you that I don't find pleasing.

  27. You make it easy to dream big.

  28. You're a slut, but you're MY slut.

  29. I love you even when you're broken.

  30. I will always protect your love and innocence--well, at least from others. *evil grin*

Happy sigh. Enjoy! :)

1 comment:

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