Adult Babies

Adult babies (commonly seen on fetish sites as AB) is a fetish involving age play.

You can also see AB called infantilism, age play, age regression, and diapering.

Of course, adult babies realize they are adults (hence the name "AB"). But they find it kinky or sexy to play the infant to their top's Mommy or Daddy.

Some adult babies enjoy wearing diapers. Others never wear a diaper for their play. Some just enjoy being taken care of so completely by another human being--as a "baby," you don't have to talk, worry, make decisions, or do anything but be cared for and cuddled.

While some partners do incorporate sex into the AB play, others feel it is too "scary" or "wrong" to initiate sex into a relationship that is even pretending to have one partner be so young. It's all up to you and what your partner are comfortable with!

When I first got into BDSM, I was more drawn to the control and dominance aspects of scene play (humiliation, spanking, rape fantasies, name calling, etc.). But the more I get involved in the online fetish community, the more I realize that adult babies are a large part of those same communities. Mommies, Daddies, and babies aren't nearly as common as, say, a submissive girl to a male Dom, but they're out there all the same.

If you are interested in reading more about this fetish from the AB perspective, I highly, highly, highly recommend the blog Pampered Penny. Pampered Penny is a KinkySexLink blog contributor, as am I, and I found her writings this way. At first, I was confused and a little repulsed by the idea of an adult baby, but I've grown to love her blog. Penny is usually an AB or ALG (adult little girl) with her partner/Daddy, but she also plays the Mommy and babysitter. She has an adult job and sells videos and photos from her life as an AB. Penny writes in a fun, unique, bouncy way, and her blogs are very articulate and intelligently written. Plus, some of her stories are just plain hilarious! This one about the time she bought a $300 baby suit to surprise her Daddy had me laughing out loud!

If you still doubt that these adult babies (and their mommies and daddies) are out there, just take a look at our friend the world wide web. You can find adult baby furniture stores, adult baby clothing stores, adult baby communities, adult baby dating sites, and online collections of everything AB. Of course, you need to be 18 or older to view all these sites.

If you're interested in exploring the baby/parent dynamic, talk it out with your partner, be open, and let me know how it goes! :)