9/16/2012

How do you relax?

I pose a question to my readers:

How do you relax enough to enjoy sex, BDSM, D/s, and DD? How do you make your mind let go so you can give in completely to your submission or to your dominance?

I have a hard time "letting go" and relaxing. It is hard to enjoy it. I feel like I should fight more, or less, or enjoy it more, or less, or something.

How do you make yourself relax?

2 comments:

absinthepassion said...

I have a threefold approach:

1) Eliminate distractions. Turn off the TV, put kids to bed, kick pets out of the room.

2) Turn on some instrumental music to a low-to-medium volume.

3) Foreplay/warmup. Lots of kissing, touching, caressing, and eye contact.

I find that removing everything else and focusing on Mrs. AP and what I want with and from her allows me to relax. Trusting her is no trick; we know each other, we know how we tick, and we constantly observe each other and react to each other. I know she will not harm me, no matter how much the sting of the flogger or crop may hurt, and she knows I will not harm her, even if the pain of my hand is sharp at times.

Trust, I think, is the ultimate key. I can relax because I trust her. Without that, all would be lost.

Stay SINful
Mr. AP

Alexandria Michelle said...

Make sure you always listen to your woman, that way she won't bother you and you will always be relaxed! Lol