tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post5290318534802288031..comments2023-11-05T07:33:48.161-06:00Comments on A Kinkster's Guide: How do you relax?Sexpertshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00781112894636030593noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-12588095085400238142012-10-03T20:14:12.785-05:002012-10-03T20:14:12.785-05:00Make sure you always listen to your woman, that wa...Make sure you always listen to your woman, that way she won't bother you and you will always be relaxed! LolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-12735310232718877392012-09-24T18:28:08.982-05:002012-09-24T18:28:08.982-05:00I have a threefold approach:
1) Eliminate distrac...I have a threefold approach:<br /><br />1) Eliminate distractions. Turn off the TV, put kids to bed, kick pets out of the room.<br /><br />2) Turn on some instrumental music to a low-to-medium volume.<br /><br />3) Foreplay/warmup. Lots of kissing, touching, caressing, and eye contact.<br /><br />I find that removing everything else and focusing on Mrs. AP and what I want with and from her allows me to relax. Trusting her is no trick; we know each other, we know how we tick, and we constantly observe each other and react to each other. I know she will not harm me, no matter how much the sting of the flogger or crop may hurt, and she knows I will not harm her, even if the pain of my hand is sharp at times.<br /><br />Trust, I think, is the ultimate key. I can relax because I trust her. Without that, all would be lost.<br /><br />Stay SINful<br />Mr. APAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com