I pose a question to my readers:
How do you relax enough to enjoy sex, BDSM, D/s, and DD? How do you make your mind let go so you can give in completely to your submission or to your dominance?
I have a hard time "letting go" and relaxing. It is hard to enjoy it. I feel like I should fight more, or less, or enjoy it more, or less, or something.
How do you make yourself relax?