A Kinkster's Guide

There is a serious lack of information on any sort of husband-led relationship that includes disciplines without  spanking. Seriously, eve...

Some bloggers have mentioned an important topic: do we blog about sex or not? Two recent posts on this topic are by Conina (" On Why I ...

I like the term "funishment." This is a deragotory term some Doms and Masters in the blogging community use to refer to punishment...

I was thinking the other day that punishment is sometimes a lot better than the alternative. Sometimes in a marriage negative feelings wi...

Today, Stormy had a great post about her Top 10 Ways to Avoid a Spanking . It really made me smile. It made me think about what techniqu...

I hate being punished. But also, I kind of like it. Confused yet? :) I'll explain. I have a love-hate relationship with punishment from ...

This today, as I'm bent over our dresser receiving my punishment for being disrespectful: "Who rules over you?" "You....

I've always cognitively understood why subs on DD websites would post things like, "I just want him to punish me!" but I can...

Do you get turned on by the following? husbands spanking their wives after typical relationship fights? having a naughty wife you have to sp...

When it comes to punishment, my Dom always seems to fall back on the obvious: causing pain! Spanking, slapping, spanking, paddling, spanking...

I've been thinking a lot about the different ways to spank, how different spanking instruments feel, and the difference in the instrumen...

Punishments are used to correct negative behavior. Of course, I'm assuming here that you have already begun training your sub, and she k...

In our efforts to research painful things, I am testing clothespins today. I know many involved in the BDSM world use them as a way to infl...

Begging is probably a pretty common fetish, although I don't have the numbers to prove it. Even vanilla people do it. In BDSM, begging c...

*Note: Labels for this post are highlighted in purple. How, you ask, could a sub ever know how to train another sub? Well, for one thing, mo...

There are two important aspects of the D/s relationship that aren't very evident to the beginner. The first one I'd like to mention...

First off, sex isn't school. So why is there homework? Well, you don't have to incorporate homework, but some subs like it (I don...

So for those of you interested in learning more about BDSM, we hope this blog will be of use to you. It will certainly be of use to us! We...