A Kinkster's Guide

I lie and wait for the triple header I know is coming,  That I know I deserve after mentioning threesomes and reading erotica and hitting hi...

There is a serious lack of information on any sort of husband-led relationship that includes disciplines without  spanking. Seriously, eve...

We come together again, And it is beautiful.   We come together in the light of a rainbow dusk You feel me, you read me, you unders...

Sometimes, our sex life is so great. Like, a 9/10. And I say that only because I always want to leave room for improvement and growth. The...

For those of you not in 24/7 D/s relationships, how do you decide when and how to enter into the D/s aspect? I've heard of methods peopl...

"Are you making me into a weak woman?" I asked. My Dom seemed confused. "Why would you think that?" Why would I think th...

Lil over at Submissive Sanctuary wrote a post on how D/s connects with love. While I like that topic, the part of her post that resonated w...

Labels are good because they help us define what we are and what we are not. But sometimes we get carried away with labels. For instance, on...

I like the term "funishment." This is a deragotory term some Doms and Masters in the blogging community use to refer to punishment...

At first, my Dom and I were doing D/s because we liked it. Mostly, because I liked the sound of the lifestyle and wanted something similar t...

A theme I read a lot on BDSM blogs is about regaining trust. Often, the slave has done something that has lost her (or his!) Master's tr...

If I had to describe the growth of our D/s relationship over time, this is what it would look like: Oh, it's definitely improving. But ...

My husband and I were having another one of our ever-occuring talks about our needs. These talks are important to me because as time goes by...

My Dom has been taking a lot more power from me lately. Not just new rules. New training. More commands. More micro-management. More follow-...

Dannah Bridger is a D/s blogger. In her blog Subtypical , she writes about how hard it can be to be a Dominant. The title of her post is ...

Trust issues are a major barrier in any relationship, but in D/s they really make things come to a screeching halt. This is because BDSM is ...

I think codependency gets a bad rap these days. Dauntless Vitality has written a great post about neediness in subs . He says most subs will...

Sometimes, my husband is able to give me so much grace in our relationship. Lately, even when I test and struggle, he always usually engage...

In [insert your community here: BDSM, D/s, DD, CDD, Taken in Hand, M/s, etc.], in all these very interrelated communities, there is always s...

Sometimes, in the middle of a scene, I'll lose subspace and come jolting back to reality. This happened yesterday. I hate it when that h...