A Kinkster's Guide

I think it's so interesting how those of us in this community show our submission and dominance in different ways. Some women have writt...

What things does my Dom do that make him seem manly, dominating, self-assured, confident, and awe-inspiring to me? He enjoys my pain. He bit...

When did I first realize that my Dom might be a dominant man? Actually, I didn't realize it consciously at first. I had never heard of B...

A lot of what makes my Dom a "good husband" is that he takes care of me. He takes care of real life things so that I don't hav...

On my earlier post Dynamic Needs in D/s , a reader left this comment: "I like to be made to do something," I said. "I want to...

I was taking part in a good discussion on Fetlife asking what we expect from our Dominants. It was such an interesting question that I decid...

I've been thinking about the online article When Rape is a Gift over at the Taken in Hand website. This article is by The Boss, who has...

Trust issues are a major barrier in any relationship, but in D/s they really make things come to a screeching halt. This is because BDSM is ...

I read a lot of submissive blogs. Lately, I'm trying to find more blogs by Dominants. And I mean good, quality blogs. Blogs written by m...

The last few days, I have been struggling with anxiety again. I've been off medicine for about 6 months, right before we go...

My Dom and I are trying, still again, to find the right balance to our D/s dynamic. It can be really hard. D/s is just like any other aspect...

Even though we are currently living apart while he starts a new job and I finish my old one and get our things packed, when we are together ...

I'm so tired of men who complain that "nice guys always finish last." The question is, do they? I don't think so. I know ...

For you Dominants out there, I thought I'd share a great blog post I just found: Lady Lubyanka's First Experience with Subspace. A l...

Why, according to most strangers I meet, is my husband obviously the "man" and therefore the obedient servant in our marriage? Ple...

I've started work this week and been very busy. We haven't had time to spend time together, much less have sex or engage in BDSM. Bu...

Many slaves and submissives in D/s relationships talk about concepts with clever little catch phrases like true submissive, authentic submi...

One of the benefits of BDSM relationships is its openness to complete vulnerability. In BDSM scenes, both the top and the bottom can let go ...

The other day, my Dom used our bondage rope for a wonderfully devious purpose--to force me to do his will during the scene. Instead of tying...

Yes, I'm humming the McDonald's theme song.... and not because I like Mickey D's (ew), but because I'm happy in my D/s relat...