A Kinkster's Guide

There has been a lot of vitriol about the Duggars these days. Finally, the nonreligious are exulting, another religious leader has turned ...

A lot of kinky relationships seem to treat pornography as normal, common, expected. Women write posts about how their lovers look at porn ...

I think, after my last post on Monogamy, it's important to add that there are Christian kinksters who practice polygamy. I wouldn't ...

I get tired of websites that decry Christians being involved in BDSM or DD. I think when it comes to BDSM, other Christians are offended bot...

At the core, a feminist is someone--whether male or female--who believes females are equal to men in value and worth and should have the rig...

Okay, I live in the Bible belt. But I'm still sometimes shocked and a little alarmed by the ignorance of my fellow Christians about thei...

Why do people think Christians can't be kinky? I mean, cognitively, I understand it. I understand that people think most devout Christia...

The statue pictured here in "The Rape of the Sabine Woman" by Giambologna. I'm no art history major, but when I first saw thi...

I'm going to spend this post answering a really good question that came to me via a comment on my older post, Christians and Polygamy . ...

Sometimes, when I write my blog, I worry that no one is reading anymore. It's kind of depressing. Or, if people are reading, I worry the...

In a lot of my posts I just assume that two kinky, Christian sexual partners are married. This isn't because I think it's always the...

A discussion I've started on Fetlife is about how to make someone submit. I'm very curious to know more about this topic. A lot of p...

I've been meaning to do this for a while. I got busy with the beginning of school and work, and I kept drafting this blog in my head, bu...

"Masters have to be more selfless than anyone." This gem of a quote was taken from Fetlife member Seya, and I thank her for it. I...

Yesterday, my Dom and I were having a talk about God, sex, BDSM, and the Bible. Yes, all those topics were the same conversation. Well, I...