A Kinkster's Guide

I get tired of websites that decry Christians being involved in BDSM or DD. I think when it comes to BDSM, other Christians are offended bot...

That's right, the media is having a big laugh at our expense. I can hardly blame them. Christians have developed a reputation for being ...

Okay, I live in the Bible belt. But I'm still sometimes shocked and a little alarmed by the ignorance of my fellow Christians about thei...

Why do people think Christians can't be kinky? I mean, cognitively, I understand it. I understand that people think most devout Christia...

Do most men want women who are naturally submissive (or weak, or softspoken, or obedient, or whatever)? Sometimes I feel that way. Just like...

On FetLife, there are many groups geared toward Christians and BDSM. I'm a member of some, including general Christian ones and specific...

As Lent approaches, many Christians around the world will begin their preparations for the Easter season by making a Lenten sacrifice. And I...

Sometimes, when I write my blog, I worry that no one is reading anymore. It's kind of depressing. Or, if people are reading, I worry the...

Happy New Year! The wedding is over, the semester is over, and the holidays are over. What this means is, I'm happily sitting at home wi...

"Masters have to be more selfless than anyone." This gem of a quote was taken from Fetlife member Seya, and I thank her for it. I...

As a Christian top, how do you lead? The answer: Spiritually, physically, emotionally, and mentally. You can't have a fulfilling sex lif...

To learn more in your quest for Christian leadership in your marriage and BDSM/sex life, consider the following links. Websites Christian Le...

One of the most common aspects of BDSM is polygamy--called "poly" by many kinksters. The majority of kinksters are poly, but I don...

In many BDSM communities, porn is 100% accepted. It is considered part of a natural, normal sex life where sexually active people believe th...