tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post7941626573573354721..comments2023-11-05T07:33:48.161-06:00Comments on A Kinkster's Guide: Sex talk or no sex talk?Sexpertshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00781112894636030593noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-49576038870828859452011-11-03T18:07:55.281-05:002011-11-03T18:07:55.281-05:00I think the difference between the pornography and...I think the difference between the pornography and erotica is the visual versus imagination. It also depends on the detail. For me I think of it as Japanese terms, Hentai (Porn) and Ecchi (barely covering). <br /><br />Is it considered Porn if it covers all the sexual spots? I say it could, but most of the time it hits the safe line. I also personally find it more visually appealing. It is the same with Erotica. If it goes into too much detail, it loses it's appeal with me. If it gets the point across and leave room for the imagination, then I find it good. So that's my opinion on that.<br /><br />Personally I find sex a personal topic, so I don't discuss such things with friends in general; but I'm a very private person by nature. Of course, I'm, of course, not having sex, but a sexual relationship. I feel I'm always trying to make sure not to cross the line till marriage; it can be a difficult balance, especially with modern views and fetish pleasures.<br /><br />SO feel free to talk about whatever you want, just keep the balance.Krystal Wattershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16271101859650056114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-30538430434422646912011-11-01T15:44:57.951-05:002011-11-01T15:44:57.951-05:00Another good site on discipline spanking vs. eroti...Another good site on discipline spanking vs. erotic spanking can be found here: http://learningdd.blogspot.com/2011/07/discipline-spankings-vs-erotic.htmlSexpertshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00781112894636030593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-4905560417735127392011-11-01T15:29:51.871-05:002011-11-01T15:29:51.871-05:00Thanks for the link!
Punishment-eroticism was wha...Thanks for the link!<br /><br />Punishment-eroticism was what enticed me to TTWD too all those years ago, in addition to the slight non-consent angle. Now it turns out I hardly ever do anything "wrong" but I still dearly crave the "punishment" anyway. I've changed a lot from the girl who once said "not that I want you to torture my nipples or anything."<br /><br />Write what you're comfortable writing.. people need real information. I totally understand the feeling of not-quite fitting though.Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-53185796234042418512011-11-01T14:15:24.877-05:002011-11-01T14:15:24.877-05:00Your dynamic is real and valid, and no, you should...Your dynamic is real and valid, and no, you should not have to hide it. <br /><br />Sexual or sexually-enhanced discipline is a big part of the lifestyle. There is no shame in discussing it. It's your blog, write from your heart. <br /><br />Readers come and go. It's good that you are being true to yourself. <br /><br />DannahAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-8192052246839953402011-11-01T13:45:19.228-05:002011-11-01T13:45:19.228-05:00Thanks for the shout out! As for discipline and s...Thanks for the shout out! As for discipline and sex...oh yes, ttwd has most certainly spiced up our sex life. ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com