tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post793195730682668606..comments2023-11-05T07:33:48.161-06:00Comments on A Kinkster's Guide: Mick's Blog and My SubmissionSexpertshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00781112894636030593noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-83273958735587087792011-10-31T11:05:08.248-05:002011-10-31T11:05:08.248-05:00I think the key here might be your perception.
Ye...I think the key here might be your perception. <br />Yes, setting rules and doing follow up is his responsibility, but following those rules is yours. Since you are a very intelligent woman, your HoH is showing his trust in and respect for your intelligence by letting you handle the details. <br />If the rule is "eat healthy", you know what that means, so you obey (I tend to believe that most men don't understand what healthy eating is, so take that into account! lol). Most wives are responsible for the kitchen anyway. To him, this seems perfectly logical.<br /><br />Submission is not about having a Dom master you. It's about opening up and allowing yourself to be mastered.<br /><br />Easier said than done, I know.<br /><br />Hugs, <br />DannahAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-1367075754547929842011-10-30T22:07:02.956-05:002011-10-30T22:07:02.956-05:00Thanks for the reference. We're all still figu...Thanks for the reference. We're all still figuring this stuff out. <br /><br />Maybe someday I'll figure out what I want to be when I grow up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-88467207400917990002011-10-30T16:44:48.784-05:002011-10-30T16:44:48.784-05:00My thoughts...just because you're accountable ...My thoughts...just because you're accountable to your husband doesn't mean that you're not still held accountable by God. For instance, if Michael put a rule in place regarding me reading my Bible then yes, he should hold me accountable if I don't do it. However, since God wants us to dwell in his word, regardless of how my husband may or may not feel about it, I'm ultimately accountable for that regardless of whether or not my husband holds me accountable for it. Yes, as head of our household it's Michael's job to lead and guide our family and he's held accountable by God for that. And I'll be held accountable not only by Michael, but also by God if I don't follow my husband's leadership and God's word. I'm not somehow absolved of my responsibilities if Michael doesn't hold me accountable for them. Ultimately we're both held accountable by God. So, to me, yes, it is your job to read your Bible yourself and to eat regularly and be healthy. There are verses in the Bible about dwelling in the word and our body being God's temple, etc. Yes, your husband should guide you and be willing to help you with the things you need help with, but are you going to stand before God one day and say that you didn't read your Bible because your husband didn't make you? Somehow I don't think so. ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com