tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post7243393058219706717..comments2023-11-05T07:33:48.161-06:00Comments on A Kinkster's Guide: Needing BDSM to Feel HappySexpertshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00781112894636030593noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-65453627960990195782012-07-05T11:54:47.688-05:002012-07-05T11:54:47.688-05:00@Anon, I am so very glad you feel this way, too! S...@Anon, I am so very glad you feel this way, too! Sometimes even my Dom does not understand ("If you want to submit then why do I have to make you?") and it is difficult for me to express this to him or to anyone. I'm glad someone else understands!Sexpertshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00781112894636030593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-47437892970540693552012-07-04T10:47:50.299-05:002012-07-04T10:47:50.299-05:00Thank you, thank you, thank you! You have expresse...Thank you, thank you, thank you! You have expressed feelings that I have been unable to voice. As a single parent for many years, being in control was necessary. I discovered BDSM when I was single, submission and home life were always separate. I am married now (2 years) and find that the separation I enjoyed no longer works. The balance I found before via my two separate worlds is not to be found now. Without learning to submit to my husband out of the bedroom it becomes almost impossible to submit in the bedroom. Now my balance comes from learning to submit to or at least give him the room to lead me. It's been very difficult to give up the control of my single years, but I'm getting there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com