tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post6089909979289046115..comments2023-11-05T07:33:48.161-06:00Comments on A Kinkster's Guide: The Christian Debate: Is BDSM Okay?Sexpertshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00781112894636030593noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-87522773792482349002015-12-16T13:02:35.147-06:002015-12-16T13:02:35.147-06:00Why not give it a try
It's between you and yo...Why not give it a try <br />It's between you and your wife i don't see any reason why it's wrong rjphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09416579662359423399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2136102288666163738.post-60067645519985288492011-07-16T09:34:40.362-05:002011-07-16T09:34:40.362-05:00Thank you for investigating this question about wh...Thank you for investigating this question about whether a spanking fetish is OK. Although I've come to realize that spanking/BDSM is OK as a form of sexual play between husband and wife, it still feels "wrong" for the reasons you listed in this article. I continually seek validation in prayer, and although the answer doesn't endorse spanking--nor does it condemn it. So long as it doesn't lead to other related sins; i.e., violating the First Commandment and letting this fetish (an object of irrational reverence or obsessive devotion) become a god in front of God, extramarital sexual activity, committing adultery in your heart, seeing people as paint-play objects rather than love, etc. <br />Although this fetish has been with me since I was 6 years old, I've never tried it with anyone else. While in a marital enrichment class at Church, I recently told my wife that I've had this desire--but never concerning her. Although she's not pleased, she may be willing to try it (and I've researched enough how to slip it in while she's heavily aroused), I still have reservations because I don't want this to be a segway for this fetish to take firm root in my consciousness.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com